
Arrhae
Ceremony
Sometime
after the exchange of vows, the groom presents the arrhae
or arras to his bride after it has been blessed by
the priest.
The
arras, Spanish for "earnest money", is said to come
from a Roman custom of breaking gold or silver into equal
halves by both parties as a pledge of marriage.
The
thirteen coins, said to represent Christ and his 12 apostles,
symbolize the groom's unquestionable trust and confidence.
By giving arras to his bride, he places all his material
wealth into her care. Acceptance by the bride means taking
that trust unconditionally with total dedication.
It
is also said that the custom came from Spain. The arras usually
come in ornate boxes or gift trays and represents the bride's
dowry as well as good wishes for prosperity. Oftentimes, these
coins become part of the family heirloom.
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Source:
Mexican Wedding Traditions. The Thirteen Gold Coins.
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